How to avoid of being scammed?
Here are some tips on how to find a reliable girl.
1. DO NOT EVER send money to a woman if you've never met her in person! -
the first and the most important rule when you start relationships with a woman online.
2. Get lady's real address to be able to have another way to contact her. Send
letters, photos or gifts to her home address and see if she gets them. Try to contact
her by phone. Use a translator if she doesn't speak your language well enough (this
is the reason why many ladies can refuse to give their phone numbers)
3. Ask her more questions in your letters and check if she ignores them. -
Scammers or scripts usually don't answer questions. They use readymade templates
to compose a letter.
4. If you decided to meet in real life insist on visiting her in her country/city. -
Scammers usually don't agree to meet at their home city inventing different reasons.
5. Perform a background check of the woman. - You can send
a courier with flowers or with your letter to the address she provided.Scammers most often appear
in the cities where there are no Big Reliable Agencies that can check if the lady you correspond with really exists.
6. Be reasonable. You shouldn't expect to find an easy way to gain love of a model-looking
girl, who is 20-30 years younger than you. If you're not a millionaire, not a celebrity, not a
handsome guy, not the most successful man (in spite of the widespread opinion these qualities often
engender real feelings), you should limit yourself with the age difference not exceeding 15 years. If
a girl who is young enough to be your daughter, is fast with declarations of love it is a sure sign that
someone wants to use you. But at the same time, if your chosen one is not a queen of beauty and you're of
the same age this doesn't guarantee that she is not a scammer.
7. Don't fall in love via e-mail. Don't put too much hopes in the correspondence.
If you suspect that you correspond with a scammer, send your findings to her agency and
just forget her, delete the letters and move on. There are much worse things that can happen to a person.
8. Don't be suspicious. You can easily hurt a good girl with unreasonable suspicions and tests and
she will refuse to continue the relationships. Love is impossible without trust. But try to make sure
that you deal with a real person before tender feelings awaken in you.
9. If you don't want to be disappointed and want to trust the potential bride
choose the right agency.
The greatest chance to get into trouble with scammers is using big dating sites, allowing placing information
online. Only one scammer by a hundred normal users can publish a hundred of fake profiles and fundamentally
increase the probability of troubles with the visitors of such site.